Its late/early but I have to talk about this right now.
Me and bman went out tonight and things went a bit differently. I'm really beginning to think it really is my hair cut. My appearance changed and it's now reflecting for everyone to see. The first girl I approached rejected me. But she was a ugly looking hoodrat so I'm not really tripping. I then went and got a drink because it was too hot in the bar we were in. We found a place to post up then that's when it happened. I looked to my right and noticed a group of black girls glancing at me. I looked ro my left and back to my right and this short white looking girl began rubbing her back on my arm. And she kept doing it. I figured she was drunk and the way she was talking with her friend kinda showed that. So I left it alone.
But she started rubbing her back on my arm a bit harder like she was really trying to get my attention. I thought about what one of the dating coaches I follow said. This was a clear choosing signal. So I made my move. And what's funny, she was all in and very cooperative. We had full playful banter and everything but I admit, I am very rusty when it comes to playful flirting with beautiful women. So I think I may have lost out on that. I went in for the number and she did give it to me however I'm not sure if it's real or not. If it's real then cool but if not then oh well It is what it is. There will definitely be more choosing signals that will be given to me in the future. She won't be the only one to give them to me, even though she was the most aggressive I've seen a woman do so far in my life.
But today just can't be a luck. I'm really beginning to feel like this was meant to happen. And now my confidence is coming back in its truest form. I just have to work on speaking up more and making things happen faster.
